The House of Two Tabbies

I’ve been doing everything in my power lately to ignore the fact that an aged crude, racist, sexist, criminal now runs the country where I live. And worse, that many people I know and love probably voted for the crumbum. (Thanks to Uncle Archie for that word.)

So Just for Fun to escape the news–Here is the update on our estranged tabbies. Just like your relatives, they disagree on most everything. And just like your relatives, they don’t get along.

But progress has been made. (See The Cute Cat Post for the beginning of the story.)

The cold nights have forced Tommy Orange to come inside. On the cold rainy days he doesn’t want to go outside, but he isn’t quite ready to be a house cat either. He’s in transition–unhappy in both places and quite grouchy. A far cry from the sweet lovable cat we adopted. Perhaps he just hates November too?

It’s generally an uneasy truce, with one going high and one going low. When they meet, it could be a hiss, or a swipe of paws, or a full chase around the house with Tommy O. usually ending on the bed.

But there have been some bright spots: the blanket sliding down on the slippery couch to put them together; Mini refusing to concede her spot on the bed and jumping up on it regardless; and the two of them sleeping cuddled next to me for more than an hour. I confess to using that excuse to extend my Sunday afternoon nap.

Mostly, we spend a lot of time being referees. Mini eats her special expensive Lamb cat food, mixed with immune support vitamins and probiotics in the kitchen. Tommy O. gets his cheap kibble in the bedroom. Mini covets his kibble and sneaks in to eat it every chance she gets. He could care less. He’s also uninterested in her expensive food; perhaps because he eats the real meat of mice, chipmunks, and moles every evening. But just yesterday, he was in the kitchen eating her food, while she was in the bedroom eating his. It’s enough to make the cat parents give up and say Whatever….

We purchased a rather expensive cat door for Tommy Orange. It fits into the bedroom window that goes out on to the covered back porch, and it was for him to go in and out the window as he chooses. The makers of the window (Cat Flap Fever) have been emailing me, asking for a review, which I would do if either cat had actually used it on their own. The only time either one has used it has been when we have stood there with them and opened the flap. Perhaps they are extraordinarily stupid? It’s been two weeks now, and Tommy shows little interest in using it.

There is one thing they do agree on–the sunny carpet is a good place for an afternoon truce.

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The Darkest Night

He comes to bring the light
to a dark and broken world.

    We know at some time, some place
    we will all face
    that darkness, that brokenness, that fear...
    Knowing does not make it any easier to hear
    or speak out loud.

But Remembering

He comes to bring the light
to a dark and broken world.

     Over and over, again
     I bring my pain
     to the one who knows, who listens, who calms...
     His outstretched hands are a balm
to my weary soul.

   

Whether your anxiety is from a diagnosis, the shape of the world, the upcoming election, a broken relationship, or simply the coming dark and cold… Call to mind his face. He brings light, and peace, and strength to face those very fears.

DIY Cleaners, Cleansers, and Creams: Simple recipes that really work

When I wrote that post Every Day Is Earth Day I thought maybe later I’ll post some DIY recipes that I use all the time. So almost a year and a half has gone by… But today, I actually made a new batch of deodorant. I usually have to make it about 2 or 3 times a year. It’s pretty easy, after you gather the ingredients, and it only takes about 20 minutes. So I took photos. And here’s the recipe.

Homemade Deodorant

 (This recipe is adapted from wellnessmama.com and almost the exact recipe is also here on Revive)

Ingredients:

3 Tbsp Coconut Oil

3 Tbsp Baking Soda

2 Tbsp Shea Butter

1-2 Tbsp grated Bees Wax

2 Tbsp Arrowroot or Cornstarch

Essential Oils (optional, but unless you are allergic to scents, please use them…)

Directions:

1.  Melt Shea Butter, Coconut Oil, and Beeswax in a double boiler over medium heat until barely melted; OR use a can instead and place this in a small saucepan of water until melted. I save my can for every time I make deodorant–I store the bees wax chunk in it, and I don’t have to wash it out. When melted together, stir well. You want all the beeswax stirred into the other oils because the beeswax is what will keep it from melting in the heat of summer, or a hot bathroom. (I use a chopstick).

2.  Remove from heat and add baking soda and arrowroot.

3.  Mix well

4.  Add a few drops of essential oil and pour into a glass container for storage. I use an old deodorant container, but be careful. The first time I tried this, I had two old deodorant containers–the first one worked fine and the second leaked out all over the counter. Old face cream jars or half-pint jelly jars work great too.

5. Some good essential oils to use for skin and deodorant purposes include: Tea Tree Oil (sometimes called Melaleuca); Grapefruit; Bergamot; Lavender; and Clary Sage. Some lists also include Rosemary, YlangYlang, and Cypress.

If you refrigerate the deodorant, it will firm up faster. After it is firm, it doesn’t have to be refrigerated.

Laundry Soap

Yep, I make my laundry soap too. I do have to add a caveat here: This laundry soap is not for extra dirty, or hard stained clothing. It works very well for regular wash, and old work clothes that already have paint stains and grease blotches. But on your nice clothes, bad stains have to be pre-treated with something else. Also, I have a top-loader with an agitator, so I can’t address how much soap to use if you have a front-loader.

Here is what you need:

Ingredients:

1/2 cup borax

1/2 cup washing soda

3/4 cup Castile soap

20 drops essential oils (lemon or other citrus, tea tree oil, lavender, and peppermint are all good)

2-gallon bucket, and cleaned out laundry soap containers or clean gallon jugs

  1. Put the borax and washing soda in the gallon bucket and pour in up to a gallon of hot water to dissolve the powders. Stir around until it is all dissolved. The hotter the water, the faster the powders will dissolve.
  2. It’s handy if your bucket has hash marks for how may quarts or gallons, but if not, add another half gallon of water and stir around.
  3. Add the Castile soap at the end, otherwise it will foam too much. Stir gently to mix the soap in with the other liquid.
  4. Add about 20 drops of your choice of essential oils and stir gently.
  5. Use a measuring cup to carefully pour into your waiting laundry jugs.
  6. (My original recipe called for using 2 gallons of water, but I’ve found that I prefer using less water. I usually end up with about a gallon and a half of liquid soap.) Be sure to shake well before adding to the washer. I usually use the cap of the container for a medium load. This is not a wild, soapy recipe–Castile soap is not known for its sudsiness.

All-purpose Spray Cleanser 1

If you’ve got the stuff for laundry soap, you can use this similar recipe for a spray cleaner…

Ingredients:

1 t. washing soda

2 t. Borax

1 T. Castile soap

2 cups very hot water

10 drops essential oil–Lemon, Orange, or Tea Tree, or a combination

Dissolve the powders in the hot water. Add the Castile soap and the essential oils and pour into a 16 ounce spray bottle.

Spray Cleanser and Degreaser 2

1 cup white vinegar

1 t. Castile soap

1 T. baking soda

3 cups warm water

15-20 drops essential oil–Lemon, Orange, or Tea Tree, or a combination

Mix together and pour into spray bottle. Do not use vinegar on marble. This is good for stovetops, range hoods, tile, sinks, and general cleaning. I have not had success on my oven door though. Nothing seems to clean my oven door….

Right now we are working on the laundry room, so I’m cleaning and reorganizing and throwing stuff out. It might be the last room in the house. Maybe it will be finished enough for photos in a couple of weeks…